The other day Morgan told me that she had a new friend named "Bennie" at school. I thought, "Okay they have been watching Dora and I think she has a friend named Bennie she plays with, so this is probably an imaginative friend, and I have never heard of that name Bennie before." (no offense) :) So I said, "Really Morgan? You have a friend named Bennie?" Her reply, "Yes, Mom, he's new at school?" I'm thinking again (have you noticed I think a lot?) "New at school? School is almost over. How can there be a new boy at school?"
Me: "Morgan, are you telling the truth?"
Her: (Smiling like she's teasing) Yes Mom ;)
Me: Well, maybe we should invite him over to play (thinking I could catch her off guard and the truth would come out) :)
Just then the phone rings... I answer it and get off the phone and Morgan says kind of nervous, but excited...
"Was it Bennie?"
Me: Maybe it was and I smiled...no, it was just Amy (her best friends mom)
So Morgan went to play. Well now, fast forward to yesterday and I'm going through Morgan's backpack and I see her calendar for May. I look at it to see all the details and notice that a certain someone has the snacks for the last Thursday. Is it Morgan? Nope, IT'S BENNIE! So now I am really curious about this Bennie boy and why Morgan is acting so funny about him.
So I ask her.
Me: "Morgan, do you like this boy Bennie?"
Her: Gets a huge grin on her face and quickly covers her face with her hands and starts to blush.
Me: You do like him, don't you!
Her: Still smiling but covering her face
Me: So do you talk to him?
Her: Yes, (still blushing, which she gets from her Mother. I blush for no reason at all. Sometimes if people are just listening to me I blush, and it's completly random too. but anyway, back to the story)
Me: What does he look like?
Her: He has brown hair and green eyes & he kind of looks like Daddy (wow, is she into details!)
Me: That's cool
We change the subject and then last night just before bed we told Brian about Bennie. Brian said, "Well, I'm sorry he won't be interested in you for about 10 years" (Great thing to tell a little girl with her first crush)
When Brian left, we had this next conversation
Me: So what do you and Bennie talk about?
Her: I'm not telling
Me: Okay, then you need to go to bed (since it was 9:30)
Her: Okay, I'll tell. (anything to stay up) :)
Me: So what do you talk about?
Her: What I'm getting you for your birthday.
Me: What? (thinking oh, how sweet. It will probably be a nice picture of a rainbow)
Her: She comes to whisper in my ear. "A purple Bra!"
Me: A purple bra?
Her: " Yep" and off to bed she went
Well this is wonderful! I imagine the new boy going home and his Mom says, "Bennie what did you learn about today?" Him: "Well Mom, I talked to this cute girl and she is getting a purple bra for her mom's birthday." At this point Bennie may not be coming back to school if this is what he is going to learn about.
*Also, I think that Morgan thinks I need to spice up my underwear life. She probably just sees my boring white bras and thinks "Mom needs some color in her life!" (If you remember that past hot pink bra story) So, for my birthday I think I would like a hot pink & a purple bra, of course she then might want me to get orange, blue, green, etc... anything but white. :)
And, I am looking forward to Tuesday when I pick up the kids from school and then I can find out who this Mysterious Bennie Boy is. :)